Controlled mannerisms, dialogue and ....

I thought I would share another aspect of my life that has bothered me for a very long time. Most relationships that I have been in most of my life, have tried to control my mannerisms, what I can and cannot say in discussion with them and/or others and also when it is most appropriate to talk even to them.

What do some of these people of the present and past think? That I am incapable of how to behave and that I do not know the right or appropriate things to say in discussions. 

Most of all, I hate being told when to stop talking!

I do everything in my power to take control of my being and my own life.

How do you all handle when you are being controlled?